Searching For the First Stafford and his wife the Elusive Avice de Clare

By Neil F. Stafford

07/21/2003  (Third Revision) (with Addendum # one) 23pages in length

Preface: In the 10th century Hugh the Archbishop of Rouen, Normandy, France gave a portion of the archepiscopal estates of Rouen to his brother Ralph.  The lands consisted of the entire Arrondissement of Louviers, (District of Louviers) which included the Town of Tosny in the commune of Gaillon.  The Town of Tosny is located on the Seine River on the river plain on the south side of the bend of the river Seine across and up stream from the Chateau Gillard (which was owned by the English king Richard the Lion Hearted at Les Andelys.)  The "s" in Tosny is silent, thus it is pronounced Toeni and is frequently spelled that way. Ralph's home was Tosny and he was called Ralph de Toeni, which means Ralph of Toeni.

Ralph was the first of his family to use the surname of Toeni; Ralph was a Norman Knight and a cousin of William Longsword, the Duke of Normandy.  Why learn about

Ralph I de Toeni?   Because the Stafford family is an offshoot of the Toeni family, and the first Stafford was born in the little town of Tosny located in the province of Normandy, France.  (Note: the Province of Normandy is divided into five "Departments", Tosny is located in the Department of  "Eure").

 

 

People who seriously research the history of the Stafford family, will eventually find themselves traveling very far back in time and will probably come across the following information on the Internet: [A Frenchman, from Normandy named Roger "the Spaniard" de Toeni and his wife Godeheut (Godehilde) Borrell had a son named Robert de Stafford, who was born about the year 1030 in Leicester, England and died about 1088.]

 The above data is wrong! Unfortunately it is very widespread across the Internet and surfaces in hundreds of family genealogies.   It is completely inconsistent with recorded history:

Which clearly states that Robert de Stafford's original name was Robert de Toeni.   Histories consistently report that Robert de Toeni was in the retinue of William the Conqueror when he invaded England in 1066. In fact there were three

De Toeni brothers with William the Conqueror, Ralph de Toeni the Lord of Conches, and his two younger brothers Robert and Nigel.  

 

Tracing the above error back to its root, one finds a genealogical report that erroneously claims that Roger "The Spaniard" de Toeni and his wife Godeheut had two sons named Robert!  The erroneous genealogical report claims one Robert was born in 1030 in England and the other Robert was born in 1039 in Tosny, Normandy, France.  This confusion is likely due to someone's limited genealogical software capabilities. Which could not handle a situation wherein an individual changed his name. And likely they were trying to squeeze in the fact that the historically reported Robert de Stafford truly was the son of Roger "The Spaniard" de Toeni, Lord of Conches.

 

In fact there is a superb example of a problem like this at the University of Hull which maintains one of the best and most reliable records of the genealogy of European royalty. One of the world's most famous characters, 

Rollo Rognvaldson the notorious Viking Pirate from Norway, also known as Hrolf the Ganger is listed twice in the same report and reported to be his own father! This is due to the fact that when Rollo became a Christian and was baptized he changed his name to Robert and became the first Duke of Normandy, the easiest way to include this information in the University's data base was to show him as being two people, i.e., father and son, fortunately no harm is done because the University clearly points out this odd glitch In its report.  What is the source of the erroneous data about the first Stafford being born in England?

 Simple, the cause of the error is easy to determine, a historian somewhere along the line confused the correct Robert de Toeni Lord of Stafford with his first cousin Robert de Toeni Lord of Belvoir who was born in the year 1030 in Leicester, England and died in 1088!

In addition to his cousin, Robert de Stafford's uncle, was also named Robert de Toeni (Lord of Belvoir, 1009-August 4, 1088), It is interesting to note that Robert I de Stafford's cousin and uncle both died in the same year and on the same day, August 4, 1088. 

 

The following data is the correct information regarding the first Stafford:

 

The father of the first Stafford was named Roger "the Spaniard" de Toeni Lord of Conches  (circa. 990-1039) 

Roger was descended from Vikings, of royal Norwegian descent, i.e., from

Eystein "Glumra" Ivarson, the Jarl (earl) of the Opplands, Norway, and was thus a cousin of the Dukes of Normandy, France

Roger lived in Normandy, France, in fact he was the Standard Bearer for the Duchy of Normandy.    His wife's name was Godeheut (Godehilde) de Borrell, daughter of Raymond de Borrel the Count of Barcelona and Ermensinde de Carcassonne.

 

Roger de Toeni and Godeheut had 6 sons: Elbert (born 1025); Elinant (born1027); Ralph (born 1029), Gazon (born 1033, he died at the age of 1), Robert (born 1039) and Nigel (born 1040).

Note Roger was killed in battle during the same year that Robert was born (1039) and Roger’s wife must have been pregnant at the time of Roger’s death in 1039 to be exact,  (May 31 1039) because Robert’s younger brother Nigel was born in the year 1040.

 

[Roger had 1 daughter: Alice (Adelise) born 1035. (She became Countess of Hereford, when she married William Fitzosbern.)

 

[Roger was married two other times to: a woman named Adelaide of Barcelona, and

Estaphania de Barcelona Queen of Navarre.  (Godeheut de Borrell's older sister.)]

 

[Roger had a brother named Robert De Toeni Baron of Belvoir (abt. 1009-1088) and the Baron had a wife named Adela Osule and a son named Robert (1030-1088), the Baron and his son are often confused with Roger's son Robert De Toeni]

 

Roger was killed along with his two eldest sons, Elbert and Elinant by the army of Roger de Beaumont because he rebelled and protested when Robert, Duke of Normandy's illegitimate son William was named Duke of Normandy.  Roger argued that a bastard had no right to inherit the position and title of Duke of Normandy.  With the death of Roger Toeni and his two eldest sons, the ancestral right to be the Standard Bearer of Normandy fell to his next oldest son Ralph de Toeni Seigneur de Conches. 

The bitter rebellion led by Roger de Toeni against his relative young William the Duke, is referred to as the Norman Civil war. The war included large battles and attempted assassinations against the young Duke.  It was a battle between relatives for political control.

 

In 1066 Duke William of Normandy decided to invade England and claim the Throne of England. William had the support of Pope Alexander II in this endeavor The Pope consecrated a banner (called a Gonfanon specifically for William to use during the invasion.  (It is interesting to note that Duke William was christened in 1066 as an adult, just prior to the Norman Conquest.)

 

Upon arrival in England with his invasion force, Duke William called a meeting of some of his most trusted knights, among who were his cousins, Ralph de Toeni and Ralph's younger brothers Robert de Toeni and Nigel de Toeni.  Duke William offered the honor of carrying his consecrated banner into the battle of Hastings to Ralph de Toeni stating that the honor was Ralph's ancestral right. But Ralph tactfully declined the honor saying that he wanted to carry a sword into battle and fight at the side of Duke William. Duke William approved his request and gave the consecrated banner to Robert de Toeni who was next in line by ancestral right to be Duke William's Standard bearer.  Thus Robert de Toeni became the Standard Bearer for William the Conqueror at the Battle of Hastings in the year 1066.

[Note: the first phase of the Battle of Hastings is also known as the Battle of Senlac hill.]

The Battle of Hastings was a ferocious battle wherein with young

Robert de Toeni (Stafford) near his side, William had to make use of four horses during the battle because three were killed from under him.  After his victory at Hastings in 1066, William had to fight for several years to gain true control over all of England.  As he marched through England conquering it territory by territory he established control by building a series of castles along the way: each castle was located approximately a one-day march from the other so that they could mutually support one another. One such castle was Stafford Castle. Each new castle was used to consolidate control over previously conquered territory, and to serve as a base of operations to further advance his army throughout England. He gave these castles to his most trusted and loyal officers.  William built a crude timber and earthen castle upon the same natural hill, used earlier for a fortress built around 910-915 by Ethelfleda, Lady of the Mercians and daughter of King Alfred the Great, when she established the Burh of Staithford, which means a fortified town at the landing place of the water crossing.     The name Staithford evolved into Stafford over time. William the Conqueror was a well-organized administrator. He greatly appreciated a sense of order and commanded young Robert de Toeni to change his name to Stafford to denote that he was the governor of the castle (or Castellan of Stafford).

Thus was born the first Stafford. Robert de Stafford was given a garrison of 60 knights to serve him at the castle.  This hastily built crude castle, which served both as a fortress, and a residence was completed in the year 1066. I suggest this for two reasons; [First,] it is recorded that Robert de Stafford's son Nicholas I de Stafford was born at Stafford, England in the year 1066. Thus Robert and his wife Avice were safely living in Stafford at the time (in the same year of the Norman invasion).    And, [second] because just three years later in 1069, the Battle of Stafford was fought wherein Robert de Stafford was still in the area and (with the help of King William) held off and defeated invading Welshmen who had allied themselves with rebellious Staffordshire residents who were still loyal to their former Anglo Saxon leaders.  ["Shire" a legal or political geographic English subdivision like a "County" is pronounced Sheer or Sure.]

In addition to Stafford Castle, King William the Conqueror was very generous to his loyal cousin Robert de Stafford, the original fief granted to Robert extended into 7 counties, holding 131 manors, and thus 131 Lordships or estates. Located in Staffordshire, Gloucestershire, Warwickshire, etc., [Note Ralph de Toeni was also rewarded for his loyal service, though not as generously. Nigel, the youngest De Toeni brother lived temporarily with his brother at Stafford castle and referred to himself as Nigel de Stafford, while he lived with Robert; but changed his name to Nigel de Gresley after he moved to Derbyshire where he was the lord of 5 Manors according to the Domesday Survey of 1086, the name Gresley evolved to Greeley over time.

Robert I de Stafford served as the first Sheriff of Staffordshire, his date of death is not known, but it is known that he was still alive in 1086 and counted in the remarkable 1086 Survey of England called the Domesday survey where Robert was listed as a major land holder, his brother Nigel is also shown to be a prominent land owner in Derbyshire.

It is reported that Robert I de Stafford was still alive during the reign of King Henry I, which was from the year 1100 to 1135.   Robert I de Stafford founded an Augustinian Priory at Stone in Staffordshire, upon the spot where Enysan de Waltone had killed 2 nuns and a priest.    Robert was buried at Priory Stone, Staffordshire, England. I usually show Robert's lifespan period as (1039-1100+).

      

More information regarding Robert I de Stafford's father Roger:

It is both a physical impossibility and a political improbability that Roger would have had a son born in England.  There is no historical evidence to support the idea that Roger was ever in England.  On the contrary, historical records show him in France, Spain and Italy.

He spent about 20 years in Spain fighting the Saracens, and trying to carve out a territory of Spain for himself with his sword as his distant relative Rollo the Ganger had done in France (Normandy). He also tried to acquire power in Spain through marriage to Raymond de Borrel's daughter (Raymond was the Count of Barcelona).

These endeavors proved to be failures, all he got for his efforts, was a nickname, "The Spaniard" which was either an empty title or a mocking insult.

 

Prior to the year 1066 Duke William of Normandy had sent some of his most trusted

Allies to live in England to support his English cousin King Edward the Confessor. King Edward had requested this Norman assistance to support his throne against powerful enemies within England who were conspiring against him. (Presumably, Duke William looked upon his cousin Roger's brother Robert de Toeni, Lord of Belvoir as being a trusted ally)

Duke William would have never sent his militaristic cousin Roger de Toeni to England to represent him.   Indeed Roger "The Spaniard" de Toeni was the leader of an armed rebellion against William, claiming that William had no right to Ducal authority due to his "base birth". This widespread and bitter rebellion is also known as the Norman Civil War; based upon the militaristic life Roger led and his constant quest for personal power and his distant royal bloodline, It is possible that he sought the royal title for himself. He already held the ancestral title of "Chevalier Banneret de Normandie". (Standard Bearer of Normandy)

 

His rebellion led to his death, and the death of his two eldest sons in a battle that took place at Conches, Normandy in the year 1039. The army of Roger de Beaumont, a very close ally of Duke William, defeated and killed him. Some years earlier Roger had financed the construction of a monastery in Conches (Roger was buried at this monastery), In fact historians found written records regarding his sponsorship of the monastery where a son attested to Roger's signature.

 

THE ELUSIVE AVICE DE CLARE

 

 

Many genealogies on the Internet state simply that the name of Robert I de Stafford's wife was Avice de Clare and offer absolutely no information about her.  In fact some notable historians admit that they knew she was claimed to be Robert's wife and that they searched in vain for her family in England but could not find a single trace of her.

Thankfully, one can now say that at least they were honest and accurate researchers, unlike some others who created a phony Avice who was conveniently born in England just a few tidy years younger than Robert, but mysteriously no one could identify who her parents were… Yikes, who needs data like that? (A fudged family tree is worse than useless!)

It is no wonder serious researchers could not find her family in England, for the simple reason she was not born in England their search was fruitless because they were looking for her in the wrong country! She was French, born in Normandy, as was Robert de Stafford a.k.a. Toeni.

She was born about the year 1050 and married Robert at the age of 14 in 1064 when she gave birth to their daughter (Alice) Adeliza de Toeni in St. Saveur, Normandy, France.  Her parents were Rohese Giffard and Richard Fitz Gilbert the Earl of Clare, who became the first governor of Tunbridge Castle in Kent, England (Note: Robert and Avice's daughter Adeliza married Roger II Bigod in England).  [Also Note: Robert I de Stafford's daughter Adeliza is occasionally listed erroneously as his cousin Robert of Belvoir's daughter. Thus the  confusion erupts again! Now why would the English born Lord of Belvoir and his English born wife have a child in France?]

  

I assume this marriage of Robert to Avice was carefully arranged looking to increase the political, economic and social strength of both families Because Avice was a direct descendent of Rollo Rognvaldson or Rollo the Ganger a.k.a. Robert the First Duke of Normandy (the 4th Great-grandfather of William the Conqueror). She was thus a cousin of William the Conqueror, as was her husband, Robert de Stafford. The Clare name was derived from the historic treaty signed in the year 912 at the Castle St Clair- sur -Epte. In which King Charles of France ceded control of the area of France known as Normandy (Land of the Northmen or Norsemen) to Rollo Rognvaldson.   Thus the name de Clare in a manner of speaking is a form of social bragging denoting as it does the family's close association with both the founder and the founding of Normandy. In fact three of the early Stafford family spouses*** see note below were relatives of King William the Conqueror.  With each passing generation the Stafford family grew in wealth and power. Early on they ran a parallel course to the throne of England… (Cousins)… finally through marriage the Staffords became direct lineal descendants of King William the Conqueror. And thus potential claimants to the throne of England.  The Staffords became direct descendents of  William the Conqueror through the marriage of Earl Ralph de Stafford (1301-1372) to Margaret d'Audley, thus introducing Norman English royalty into the Stafford family in addition to the Saxon English royalty already possessed by the Staffords.  

 

 

 

****Note three early Stafford spouses:

****Also see the family trees I have prepared for the following Stafford spouses*****

 

 

Avice de Clare born about 1050, a direct lineal descendent of Rollo Rognvaldson

(4th Great- grandfather of King William the Conqueror).  Avice was also (through the wife of Rollo, Poppa de Senlis) a direct descendent of Charlemagne, King of France and her ancestry is readily traceable to the Emperors of Rome and numerous royal families throughout Europe and the Middle East.

Maude de Meolte born about 1069, a direct lineal descendent of Harlette de Falais (King William's mother through William's half sister Emma de Conteville).

Petronilla (Pernel) de Ferrers born about 1198, a direct lineal descendent of Harlette de Falais (King William's mother through William's half brother Robert the Count of Mortain de Burgo in Normandy, and also known as the Count of Cornwall in England.  Pernel was also a direct lineal descendent of Ethelfleda the "Lady of the Mercia" and thus of King Alfred the Great, the Saxon King of England.

See Illustrations and additional text on the following 18 pages:

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Exhibit A (from the Internet)

Roger de Toeni shown with two sons named Robert

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Ralph II (Rodulf) Seigneur De TOENI Seigneur de Conches



Mrs-Ralph (Rodulf) De TOENI



 

Roger "The Spainiard" De TOENI (CONCHES)

Godheut (Godehilde) BORRELL

 

b. abt 0990, <Of, Tosny, France>
d. ABT 1038/1039

b. abt 0995, <Of, Tosny, France>
d. aft 1077

 

spouses: 1, 2, 3

 


Children

Elbert De TOENI
Elinant De TOENI
Ralph De TOENI (CONCHES) "de Conches"
Robert De STAFFORD
Helbert (Elbert) De TOENI
Gazon De TOENI
Eliant (Eliance) De TOENI
Alice (Adelise) De TOENI Countess of Hereford
Robert De TOENI
Mr. De TOENI

Notice there is both a Robert de Stafford and a Robert de Toeni; both refer to Robert de Toeni who later changed his name to Robert de Stafford when he was ordered to do so by William the Conqueror.   (The two Roberts were underlined by me for emphasis).

 

 


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EXHIBIT B: (from the Internet)

SHOWING UNCLE AND COUSIN FROM BELVOIR

OF ROBERT I DE STAFFORD

 

 

*Robert De Toeni
born Abt 1009 Of, Belvoir, Leicestershire, England
died 4 Aug 1088


father:
*Ralph II (Rodulf) Seigneur De Toeni
born bef 0970 Of, Tosny, France
died Aft 1015


mother:
*wife of Ralph II (Rodulf) De Toeni
born Bef 0974 Of, Tosny, France
died Aft 1015



siblings:
*Roger "The Spainiard" I De Toeni (Conches) born Abt 0990 <Of, Tosny, France>
died: Abt 1038/1039 buried 31 May 1039 Conches, Seine-et-Marne, France
Ralph De Toeni born Abt 0992 Of, Tosny, France


spouse:
*Adela Osule
born Abt 1014 Belvoir, Leicestershire, England


children:
*Robert De Toeni born Abt 1038 Of, Belvoir, Leicestershire, England
died Aug 1088 buried Belvoir, Leicestershire, England


biographical and/or anecdotal:

notes or source:
ancestry
.com

 

 

 

 

 

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EXHIBIT C

 

MAP PROVINCES OF FRANCE

 

 

 


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EXHIBIT D

PORTION OF BAYEUX TAPESTRY

WHICH IS A POSSIBLE ILLUSTRATION OF ROBERT DE TOENI WITH


WILLIAM THE CONQUEROR AT THE BATTLE OF HASTINGS IN 1066

 


Cut from Bayeux Tapestry with William the Conqueror & Robert de Toeni (de Stafford) who is carrying William's Papal Gonfananon as William's Standard bearer, Notice that Robert is pointing back at William, and William is raising his helmet so that his men could see him more clearly

He did this because his men were beginning to panic because there was a rumor circulating that William had been killed. With the exception of William, historians dispute who can be positively identified on the massive tapestry, which was created years after the battle and was commissioned by Duke William's half brother Bishop Odo to give an illustrated account of the historic event.  The small cut above represents only a tiny portion of the tapestry, which is over 70 feet long.  Notice that Robert is depicted with a mustache that was the style of the day.  (Of course, I don't know for sure that this is supposed to be Robert de Stafford).          

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EXHIBIT E

 

GOOD CLEAR (SIMPLE) MAP OF NORMANDY shows relationship to Paris and the Seine River

 


This map clearly shows the Seine River flowing northwest out of the city of Paris and meandering down through the Seine valley in the province of Normandy all the way to the English Channel, notice Conches to the left of Evreux.  Conches is the burial site for Roger "The Spaniard" de Toeni, Lord of Conches [the father of the first Stafford, Robert de Toeni (Stafford)]. Unfortunately, Tosny (the birthplace of the first Stafford, Robert I de Stafford [Toeni]) is not shown on this map, It is located on the left side of the river immediately to the left of Les Andelys. (Tosny is clearly shown in the next illustration) The Vikings under the leadership of Rollo the Ganger sailed and rowed up stream on the Seine river from the English Channel towards Paris, the French King Charles the Simple feared the Vikings would conqueror Paris. To protect the City, the King ceded the province of Normandy to Rollo, and offered his daughter in marriage to Rollo, the King had two key conditions that he wanted Rollo to meet.  First, Rollo had to agree to be baptized as a Christian and second, Rollo had to agree to repel any further attacks on France by other Viking groups. 

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EXHIBIT F

MAP ILLUSTRATING PRECISE LOCATION OF TOSNY ON THE SEINE RIVER (includes the whole District of Louviers)


 

 


The above map generally depicts the whole area of Normandy known as the

Arrondissement of Louviers, (District of Louviers) This entire area was owned by the de Toeni family; their home was located in the little community of Tosny.

Notice the little town of Tosny located along the Seine River across and up stream from Les Andelys.

Paris is just off the map, to the southeast up stream from Giverny. (Home of the famous painter Monet.)

 

 

 

 

 

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EXHIBIT G

Statue of Hrolf the Ganger  (Robert I Duke of Normandy)

There are numerous statues of Rollo located throughout Europe, including

Notre Dame Cathedral, his burial place.   All Staffords today are direct descendents of Rollo, through Avice Fitzrichard de Clare born about 1050 in Normandy the wife of Robert I de Stafford.

Rollo was married to Poppa de Senlis (Poppa was then an affectionate term which meant Little Doll)

Poppa de Senlis was a direct descendent of Charlemagne, King of France whose ancestry clearly traces back to the Emperors of Rome!  Thus Avice Fitzrichard de Clare brought incredible royal ancestry to the Stafford family.


 

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EXHIBIT H

STATUE OF ETHELFLEDA,  LADY OF MERCIA WITH HER NEPHEW  ATHELSTAN

LOCATED AT TAMWORTH CASTLE, STAFFORDSHIRE, ENGLAND


Ethelfleda "The Lady of Mercia" was the warrior daughter of King Alfred the Great, note the sword she is holding in her right hand.   In addition to an exceptionally good classical education by some of Europe's leading scholars of the day, She was trained as a knight along with the young men in her father's service. On behalf of her father she led the military resistance against the Vikings who had invaded England and were trying to expand their area beyond the Danelaw into Mercia.                                                                                                                          Ethelfleda is credited as being the builder of the original fortified Town of Stafford in a portion of Ancient England known as Mercia (Just east of Wales and west of the area then known as the Danelaw, which was an area of England which was dominated by Danish Vikings. Around the years, 910 and 915 she built a fortress on top of a natural hill, or ridge, at a location known then as Staithford. At the bottom of the hill was a swampy-forested area with a tiny Island in the middle of the watery area. This little Island was referred to as a "staith" that is, a "Landing Place"

a "resting place"for those who were fording or crossing the watery area through the forest.

The little island or "staith" was first occupied by Saint Bertelin, who built a hermitage or monastery upon it.  The area of the tiny island is now the location of modern day Stafford's busy Market Square and the swampy water in this area over several centuries receded into the natural water channel known today as the Sow River.   Because Staithford was a fortified town it was known as a Burh, or the Burh of Staithford, which literally meant the fortified landing-place at the water crossing.  Over time residences and shops sprung up along side of Bertelin's monastery and Ethelfleda's fortress on this popular route between Mercia and Wales.  Over time, the name Staithford evolved into Stafford, and eventually the region around the town came to be known as Staffordshire.  To this day (2003), Stafford is still referred to as "the county town".  It is interesting to note that Ethelfleda's fortress location, originally intended to protect the area from Danish Vikings, in time became a fortress castle for the descendents of Norwegian Vikings, i.e., Normans.  It is also interesting to note that when Hervy de Stafford (1194-1237) married Petronilla (Pernel) de Ferrers Ethelfleda became a direct Stafford family ancestor as did her father,   King Alfred the Great.   Thus Hervy's son Robert IV de Stafford (1220-1282) was the 1st Stafford of English Royalty (Saxon Line) in addition to his numerous other Royal European bloodlines.         (CONTINUED ON NEXT PAGE)

 
 

 

 

 

 

EXHIBIT i


Photos: Stafford Castle ruins, summer, 2000 by Charles and Carole Felten

 


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Exhibit J

SELF PORTRAIT ;-) AND AFTERTHOUGHTS

 


Regarding exhibit i on the preceding page, The ruins in the photos do not, of course, depict the original castle built for Robert I de Stafford. The first stone castle, I believe was built at this location in the 14th century by Ralph de Stafford the 1st Earl of Stafford and a highly honored founding member of the Knights of the Garter.

·         When I mentioned that Ethelfleda built her fortress on top of the natural hill or ridge at Staithford, I underlined the words natural hill for a reason, for those who don’t know, the presence of a natural hill for a fortification in the early medieval period was considered to be a wonderful luxury. Many early Castles were built in the following manner: first a large circular ditch was dug and the dirt from the ditch was thrown into the center of the circle. The hill in the center was called a Motte and the castle or fortress was built upon the Motte or man-made hill. The large, wide, and deep ditch around the Motte was called a Moat.  Usually a heavily fortified drawbridge across the Moat (which was sometimes filled with water) was needed in order to gain access to the main gate or entrance of the castle.  Some historians claim that when William the Conqueror was at Hastings and just prior to the historic battle, he ordered that a large Motte be built. Then he dismantled the numerous boats of his invasion fleet and used the timbers from his boats and built a fortress upon the Motte. With all means of retreat gone and the waters of the English Channel at their backs separating them from the relative safety of their home in France. And with all the armies in England before them, William announced what was painfully obvious to his army.  "We are here to Stay"!  [Motte is from an old French word mote, which meant mound, or the medieval Latin word, mota.  Motte and Moat are confusing because they both relate to castles and they both appear to be pronounced almost the same way.] Sometimes, man made mounds or mottes (rhymes with blots) were placed on top of natural hills; there was a man-made Motte and moat (rhymes with goat) on top of the ridge at Stafford, England.  Certainly the hastily built first castle was an earthen, timber structure. William considered the Stafford area critical to the defense of his kingdom. It was adjacent to the area historians call the Welsh Marches castles in this area were intended to protect early England from invaders from Wales, and occasional incursions from Ireland. Speaking of early England look at the next exhibit, which features an ancient map of England.  If you study it very closely you should be able to locate Stafford on the map).  

 

·        As a youngster in snowy Buffalo, New York One of my favorite games was to build a huge snow pile about 12 feet high in front my home and play a game we called "King of the Castle", the objective of course was to remain on top as playmates climbed up and tried to push me off the top.  (It was always a good idea to have a huge supply of snowballs with you when you were at the top!  While we had no "moats" per se, during the night it was wise to secretly pour some water in strategic locations known only to yourself, of course, those devilish slippery icy spots sure were helpful if you placed them well!  I guess, being a Stafford,  my castle management skills were hereditary!

 

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EXHIBIT K


 


ANCIENT MAP OF ENGLAND AND NORMANDY during lifetime of King William the Conqueror, illustrating his areas of control around the year 1080. 

As you can see in the legend above, Stafford is located just east of the area of the Palatine Earls (shown in green/blue on this map)  

. King William considered this area so critical to the security of England that he gave the earls Palatine Control (Sovereign Control) over their territories.

                              

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EXHIBIT L and Parting Observations (END OF ORIGINAL ARTICLE)

 

This is the official Crest of Stafford, England

Note the depiction of Saint Bertelin at the top, he is the patron saint of Stafford and Stafford's first resident, he became the first resident when he built his hermitage there, in the early 8th century.

Also take note of the pretzel shaped object near the top of the shield. This is known as the Stafford Knot.  A humorist once wryly observed that a thrifty Stafford sheriff developed it so that he could hang three criminals, simultaneously with one piece of rope! Study it carefully.


Be aware that over the centuries The Stafford family had numerous Family Crests and mottoes over several centuries depicting the family's status at the time. The crest below is for the Town of Stafford.

 

 

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* PARTING OBSERVATIONS: when engaging in genealogical research on the Internet, It is wise to study historical records of as many kinds as you can. Realize that absolutely anyone (including the town clown) can upload family data to the Internet, even to well known information sources such as Ancestry.Com and Info provided by "Family Tree Maker " users and even a source such as that provided by the Latter Day Saints search engine and even commercially made CD ROMS that promise to provide scads of family data!

As Ronald Reagan used to say, "Trust but verify!" Over the years, I have uncovered and corrected several errors in the historic Stafford family tree, by reading history and studying other sources of data besides genealogical web sites and family trees. And by sharing findings with fellow researchers and offering and accepting positive criticism. Each new tiny bit of correct data offers a clue that can open up fascinating areas for further research.  For example, learning a castle name or famous battle name or location may give you a clue to pursue yet more information regarding the family you are researching,

I even found the real estate records for the house owned by William Stafford and Mary Boleyn, almost by accident because I was pursuing a clue of a totally unrelated area of interest! Searching the family histories of Stafford spouses has opened up terrific windows into the live of historic Stafford family members. Try it, you'll like it! If you learn or reconfirm any good data concerning the Stafford family, please let me and everyone else at this web site know about it.

That is the purpose and spirit of this web site! ( www.johnstafford.org) Larry Stafford is the Webmaster of the site.

One of the key questions that occurred to me while studying Stafford family history was; why and how did they become so rich and powerful?  In order to solve those questions it was necessary to trace them from their earliest days, thus it was necessary to find the first person to use the surname of Stafford.  Finding and identifying the first Stafford has already been discussed earlier in this article.  In order to be consistent with recorded history the first Stafford had to be originally named Robert de Toeni, born in Normandy France, and a participant in the Norman invasion of England in the year 1066, and he had to have an older brother named Ralph.    Also he had to be a son of the notorious Roger "the Spaniard" de Toeni and Godheut de Borrell.  As pointed out earlier in this article, I found the first Stafford, Robert I de Stafford (1039-1100+) and his wife Avice Fitzrichard de Clare (1050-?).

Research on Robert I de Stafford's ancestry proved fruitful, It revealed Scandinavian Royal pedigree, which proved that Robert, was a cousin of William the Conqueror.  And, Robert also possessed pedigree of Spanish nobility through his mother.  Through research concerning the Battle of Hastings, I learned that Robert upheld his family's ancestral tradition of serving as the Duke of Normandy's Standard bearer, an honored function that should have been served by Robert's older brother Ralph, but Ralph declined the honor and Duke William gave his consecrated Papal Gonfanon to Robert to carry into battle.  The fact that Robert served as the Duke's Standard Bearer at the Battle of Hastings had a great deal to do with the illustrious history of the Stafford family over the centuries!  It was extremely important to William that the son of the man, who had led a civil war against him, agreed to recognize his authority to rule by serving as his standard bearer at the critical battle of Hastings! Without question this act by Robert de Toeni (Stafford) made a major impression on the other knights present at the Battle of Hastings. It cemented forever the legitimacy of William to rule over his Norman/English followers. William richly rewarded Robert de (Stafford) Toeni by giving him ownership and control over a vast amount of land in the new Norman kingdom of England, virtually ensuring that Robert and his family would be extremely rich and socially prominent.

Research on Avice de Clare's ancestry proved to be a gold mine of data!  Research revealed that like her husband Robert, Avice was also a cousin of William the conqueror,

and much more, she was a direct descendent of Charlemagne the King of France and thus her pedigree clearly traced back to the Emperors of Rome, and the royal families of numerous European nations (and Middle Eastern nations such as Persia, Israel, Egypt, etc., through her mother, Rohese Giffard).

The combined pedigrees of Robert I de Stafford and his wife Avice were extremely strong and significant to William the Conqueror.  It is interesting to note that any son born to Robert I de Stafford and his wife Avice would have essentially the same royal pedigree as a